Be hard headed and soft hearted. Unsettling disruptive times are times of opportunity. Take risks or be willing to take risks. Be confident but realistic. Bless your children. Marriage is not two people looking into each others eyes, its two people looking at the same place. Go through life lookin through the front windshield not the side or rear mirrors. Do things for the purpose, not just for yourself or the money. Accepts bad news, be an active listener be humble. Growth is uncomfortable. Always know you can make a difference in everything.